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I read a lovely post this morning (read it here https://www.linkedin.com/posts/jim-matlock-661506239_veterans-vfw-education-activity-7235291383375290368-xkRw?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop).

The gist is that a US school teacher had 27 veterans bring in the desks for young children just starting school.  Her point was that the children only had the freedom to occupy those desks due to the service and sacrifice of people like these men (carrying the desks).

Nice, I thought, well played teacher.

Then I read a few comments.  Bad move Neil, donโ€™t read the comments โ€ฆ

The very first one I saw pointed out that โ€œshe had 27 veterans just waiting around all day to bring these desks in?  Nah, that wouldnโ€™t happen.  I smell BSโ€.  The next I saw screamed that this was abominable because it was โ€œglorifying warโ€.

What the fu*k??!!

What has happened to us?

We cannot read a story and get the point?  We scrutinise the details looking for flaws that make it untrue?  We โ€œfact-checkโ€ and denounce the whole thing as lies and unreliable nonsense?  Admittedly this is how a lot of โ€œnewsโ€ and โ€œjournalismโ€ is done so I can see where we might get this from.

But this is throwing the baby out with the bathwater, in action.

I suspect there were interesting conversations in all those children’s homes that evening.  I dare say some have parents or grandparents who have served or are serving now.

But the comments โ€ฆ wow!

Imagine the Brothers Grimm publishing one of their fairytales now โ€ฆ Rapunzel say.  A young maiden lives in a tower, lets down her long, long hair and the prince climbs up to save her.

Whoa, hang on a minute, if she was โ€œyoungโ€, then she wouldnโ€™t have hair that long.  The average rate of growth of hair is x and sheโ€™d have to be at LEAST 60 years old to have hair long enough to be as tall as the average tower in Germany at that time โ€ฆ

Incorrect tales of over-stimulated maiden hair follicles??!!  I fact-checked yaโ€™ arse and I denounce you, peddler of lies!!

What the actual fu*k?

They missed point of the tale completely and zoomed in on details and use that to discredit the story and throw away any value it may have had?  To appoint oneself the saviour of truth?  To take a tiny aspect and extrapolate from that to a glorifying war stance that is simply โ€ฆ wow, words fail me.

How did we end up here.  What hope is there for us as a species?  Because right now, we look buggered.

Maybe hope lies in my reaction to this and me saying my piece.  And you too.

Maybe hope lies in all of us standing up and saying โ€œhold on a minute, I donโ€™t agree with thatโ€ in our thousands, millions, hundreds of millions.

Billions โ€ฆ 

Imagine a world where billions of people just like you and me, clutching their decency and empathy and common sense and respect for others close in their hearts, crying out โ€œwoah buster, not so fast, I donโ€™t agree with that!โ€.

My, how things would change quickly.

About NeilLawson

Over the last 10 years I have changed my career twice, my relationship and my home. Iโ€™ve changed my entire life. I have also come to terms with the old trauma and made great strides to recover myself and regain connection with my emotions. I know all about life transformation โ€“ from the sharp end โ€“ and I can show you how to make changes in your life too; whether thatโ€™s to feel more confident, change your job, career, life, relationship, achieve goals โ€ฆ