The Default Audit: Did You Design Your Current Life – or Did It Just Happen?
Living by Design [not by default]You are successful – on paper. But somewhere along the way, the work that was supposed to give you freedom feels more like a trap. And if you’re honest, you’re not entirely sure when you last felt excited about what you’re doing.
This audit takes two minutes. It will show you exactly where you are – and what becomes possible from here.
Read each statement. Tick the ones that feel true.
Be honest with yourself – there is no wrong answer here. Only the clarity that comes from telling the truth.When you look at what you’ve just acknowledged — which of these feels most like where you are?
Trust your first instinct. The one that made you pause is almost certainly the right one.
"I sat with this longer than I expected to, because I recognised myself. That was a bit of a shock actually."
"I was a shadow of myself. I own my life and my business now. I feel like I did in my 20s."
You still work hard — but the work feels chosen. You know why you’re doing it, and that why is yours, not inherited from someone else’s definition of success.
The work reflects your values. The people around you were chosen, not accumulated. There’s space — not because you work less, but because what you do feels purposeful.
The Default Audit was designed and created after a lifetime of watching people and the patterns that make or break them. Neil is the author of Living by Design [not by default] and an identity and pattern coach for business owners and leaders. He lives with his fabulous wife by the seashore in Cromer, UK — by design.
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If this felt more like a mirror
than a questionnaire
I work with established business owners and senior professionals who are ready to stop living by default and start building deliberately. Not with a framework — but by getting underneath the patterns that have been running your life without your full permission.
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