Try this: don’t think of a blue elephant. What did you see in your mind’s eye? An elephant perhaps? Maybe a blue one? Most people do and the reason is simple: So if you think “I don’t want to feel so tired”, your mind thinks tired. If you think “I want fewer hassle clients”, your …
LinkedIn just signposted an article on the news about coming back to work after your summer vacation and the feelings around that. Itโs an interesting article and intended to be helpful, but I found one phrase that shocked me. It was this: โIf you did take a holiday, the return to work can feel like …
I read a lovely post this morning (read it here https://www.linkedin.com/posts/jim-matlock-661506239_veterans-vfw-education-activity-7235291383375290368-xkRw?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop). The gist is that a US school teacher had 27 veterans bring in the desks for young children just starting school. Her point was that the children only had the freedom to occupy those desks due to the service and sacrifice of people like …
๐๐ก๐๐ง ๐๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐k ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐, ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ข๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ, ๐๐ ๐๐จ๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐ก? Play is how we begin our lives as children – we spend untold hours entertaining ourselves in stuff (or at least, I and my generation did). We explored the world, tried things just to see what happened. We used out imaginations to create worlds and games and …
We are born having very simple needs – comfort, food, to be clean and safe and warm. Over time, we are “educated” into fast and thinking-is-king and that results are the only thing that matters. We lose that connectedness, slow and awareness of our bodies and feelings. We become wedded to the idea that happiness …
A recent post received a lot of responses. It was a thought experiment where a lower rate of return could be chosen to prioritise looking after people or a higher return that cost 1000 people their jobs. I speculated that the most common decision was the higher return regardless of the adverse impact to a …
Is your work zapping your passion these days? Do you feel experienced, but bored? I know I can do this, but do I want to? This is the key question. So many of us do things because thatโs the road we are on. If you are going to change things, you need to decide to …
Coaching is an immensely powerful means of self-transformation and growth. An expert coach is obviously necessary, but so is a great client. If someone is not willing or able to be coached, the outcome is very difficult to achieve. Here is what I define as being a great client: But hereโs what I know for …
The world’s people are in peril. We no doubt live in a noisy, numb, narcissistic age. The talents and attentions of the majority are not invested in personal mastery and social responsibility but squandered on games, voyeurism, and base sensationalism. We have recklessly abandoned what truly matters – the striving to be great as individuals …
The Wheel of Life is a simple, easy to do view of how satisfied you are right now with your life. It’s fun, quick and intuitive. If your wheel is balanced, it’ll roll well, but if one or more areas is out of kilter, life will feel more difficult than necessary. This simple activity gives …